Yippee! Have finally got the door fixed (after much complaining). I spent some quality time with my son at the weekend as i thought that that might help with his attitude of late. Which seems to be working so far, i think that he just needed some attention from me.
Which has been difficult lately as he has been really busy with commitments and spending time with his friends, which has all been his choice. We have agreed to make time every week to just mess about together.
My 4yr old has turned into a resident artist, she has taken to drawing on walls and doors around the house as she "could not find any paper" we have plenty of paper she just did not ask for it.
We have also had a problem with her swearing in Somali, which she has picked up from school and i had not picked up on obviously as i don't know any Somali, in my ignorance i just thought she was talking gibberish.